One of the reasons we can’t get moving toward what we want is that we can’t handle the reality of possible failure, because the only way we can see anything less than the perfect outcome is that it will be devastating. It will be the worst thing ever, and that’s all our subconscious needs to […]
We all hear about practicing healthier communication, why the skills are so important to having better relationships, but if you’re just learning about the more subtle and insidious ways we don’t connect well, where do you start? How do you do it differently – for real? I think it IS about splitting hairs, and getting […]
You know how it is…you are standing there with someone you really care about, and you just can’t hold the eye contact. Or really acknowledge the heartfelt gesture. Or provide the empathy and compassion they need right now. So frustrating, and yet so common. But why is it so hard? As we’ve been talking all […]
