We all want them to be committed. We want our partner, our friends, our kids and our coworkers to all be eternally committed to personal growth. To get some boundaries, to heal the old trauma, and to stop acting out immaturely when God forbid we need to confront them. Yes, we need them to be […]
Since the time we were born, we have craved connection. Originally we need to literally survive, because if we are not connected to the mother we may not be fed or cared for. That bond is what also affects the HGH or human growth hormone, so we also need the loving attention to grow and […]
Genuine love is about acceptance and respect – not control. I know we hate to hear that having “reasonable expectations” from a relationship should not make us controlling. Our needs are valid, and our boundaries solid and healthy. So what’s the problem? Well, the problem is not with what we want and need – the […]
